I don’t know about you, but every so often when I look at my life, I get curious about the day-to-day details of others’. When I see a couple walking their dog, I’d love know: How did they meet? Who makes dinner more often? Do they have a TV in the bedroom? And is she lucky enough to have a husband who does the laundry?

Well, thanks to a story I’m working on for Redbook magazine right now, I’m about to find out!

But I need your help. Share and you shall receive, right? Just click here on the Redbook Relationship Survey and answer a few fun multiple choice questions about your everything from pet names to paying the bills. We’ll be publishing the results in an upcoming issue.

So…is your relationship normal? Let’s find out.